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My wife was no longer "in love" with me and wanted a divorceDear Dr. Ellen,I wanted to wait before I wrote to you because I wanted to make sure that what happened to my marriage was no temporary fix. I now know that my impending divorce is a thing of the past. This letter is for you but it is my hope that it will also inspire every man out there who doesn't know where to turn to for help. You of course already know how effective your teachings are but someone coming to you for the first time doesn't know that they couldn't be in more capable hands. When I first did a search to save my marriage, I knew that I needed a miracle to change my wife's mind. At first it was a harmless friendship with a coworker. She would share their conversations with me and I felt no threat. But as months went by, she talked less and less about him and became more distant to me. Then one day as a result of pushing her for an answer as to her growing distance, she finally admitted that, although she loved me and would we would always be connected because of the kids, she was no longer "in love" with me and could never be again. I only heard bits and pieces after the part where she said that "she didn't love me anymore and had fallen in love with her coworker. She never intended to hurt me. It just happened. It's no one's fault. We can stay friends for the sake of the kids" and other canned responses that she must have felt would soften the blow. I was in denial at first but then I realized the affect this would have on our two children who were 12 and 9 at the time. I couldn't just sit there and let this happen. I immediately spent every spare moment searching for anything that would reverse the course of our lives. I am guilty of getting every download that has ever been offered on the Internet. Nothing helped and our marriage seemed doomed. Then I found you. After spending hours on your site and reading and listening to everything you had available I realized that maybe, just maybe, there would be a way to save our marriage. I wrote to you and you actually wrote back. The one thing I remember you saying was that without my wife listening to what you had to say, there would be no changes in her desire to get a divorce. But how could I get her to listen when she was in love with another man and had made her mind up to leave. I bought the programs on blind faith and gave my wife the letter you suggested. Her reaction to be honest was, "Take this program and shove it where the sun don't shine." Does that give you a clue to what I had to work with? I put her program away and began listening to mine. As I listened I understood why my wife was no longer in love with me. I knew I couldn't change the past, but I sure could control the future. I followed your instructions to the T. I got absolutely no response and then 3 months later, my wife said that she was having 2nd thoughts about getting the divorce. The kids hated the new man in her life and he was having problems with his own teenage children (who couldn't stand my kids). I guess the life with me wasn't looking so bad after all. She agreed to listen to your program and the rest, as they say, is history! You are so right when you say that pain is what causes us to grow. I would not be the husband and father I am today if it weren't for your wisdom and remarkable ability to deliver the information we need in such an easy and entertaining way. There were times I sat in the parking lot and came late to the office because I didn't want to stop listening. I can never thank you enough for showing me what I needed to do to get my wife back and keep our family in tact. I hope you never stop doing what you do because I know there are many clueless men like me who need you. Your fan forever, Rob W. Lawrence, New York
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